Women and Finances: How Estate Planning Can Help
August 26, 2010
When it comes to family matters, women are often the head (and sometimes the sole member) of the planning committee. Vacations, dinner parties, school activities and celebrations… many of these wouldn’t happen at all if the women of the family didn’t take the lead. Estate Planning tends to be no different: Many first phone calls, appointments, and attendance at estate planning or elder law seminars are initiated by women. However, studies suggest that this tendency in women to plan ahead may not apply to financial planning.
A recent article from CBS news suggests that although women are actively involved in family and household finances, they are less likely to be involved in long-term financial decisions. According to the article, although many women “know how to spend and get by on a short term basis… they have a time getting a grip on their long term saving and planning.” Of course this is a generalization, and won’t apply to everyone; but considering the importance of the topic, it is definitely a worthwhile subject for discussion.
Here are a few statistics to consider that impact women and their long-term financial decisions:
- Older women (65+) outnumber older men by 22.4 million to 16.5 million. (Administration on Aging)
- Poverty rates are higher among older women than older men by 20.4 to 13.1. (U.S. Census Bureau)
- The median weekly earnings of full-time wage-earning women is $657, or 80 percent of men’s $819. (U.S. Dept. of Labor)
- Not to mention that on average, it is the woman of the family who will end up putting her career on hold for caregiving duties at various times in her life (either to care for young children or aging parents.)
Put all of this together and it means that women need to take control of their finances, not the other way around! Luckily, this may not be as difficult as you think. The CBS news article mentioned above has some suggestions on how to take charge of your finances; but beyond that, planning your estate can be a huge step toward planning for your financial future as well, because any estate planning includes taking stock of of your financial assets—including savings accounts, retirement assets, individually owned assets as well as those owned jointly by a married couple.
We encourage women (and their families) to let their estate planning contribute to their financial future—it’s not just about how your assets will be distributed after your death, but also what steps you’d like to take to preserve those assets during your lifetime.
Tax Tips to Benefit YOUR Family
April 15, 2010
Tax day is here. Are you ready to file? And just as important—are you taking advantage of all the savings and deductions available to you? Most people who do their own taxes are unaware of some of the lesser-known deductions which can help you save money come tax-time. We have a couple of articles we’d like to share with our readers that may make it easier for your family come April 15th.
A recent article on SmartMoney.com offers 3 often overlooked ways to save on your income taxes. Two of the three items have to do with parenthood and buying a home, but of particular interest to our readers is tip #2, Selling Grandma’s Stuff: “If you sold something last year that you inherited, understand that your tax basis for gain or loss purposes generally has nothing to do with what your benefactor paid for the asset. And that’s probably going to save you a bundle in taxes.” If you sold an asset from an inheritance last year (or if you received an inheritance last year at all, regardless of whether you’ve sold the asset or not) let your tax professional know.
Another potentially useful resource for tax savings is the ABC News article Top Ten Commonly Missed Tax Deductions to Put Cash in Your Wallet. This article reminds us to include the little things—such charity volunteer related expenses, the new car deduction, old school books used for work, and more. There are a number of tax deductions your family may be able to take advantage of… if you just know where to look.
If you have not yet completed your tax return by April 15th, or are still mulling over tax deductions, you may consider filing for an extension. But do it in a timely manner. Ask your tax professional for help. Somtimes the additional time to reflect on your circumstances may be well worth the effort.
Tax Moves to Make Before the End of 2009
December 4, 2009
Why do people give so many charitable gifts in December? The holiday spirit may not be the only thing inspiring people to give to the less fortunate this month, it may also have something to do with lowering your 2009 tax bill. If it’s taxes you’re worried about, there are a few other moves you can make after you’ve done your charitable giving. Ashlea Ebeling of Forbes has a whole list of things you can do to lower your 2009 tax bill before year’s end, we’ll mention just a few of them here:
- Fund those retirement savings accounts. As the article above points out, you can fund your 2009 retirement accounts up until April of 2010, but if you have an employer who will match your investment it’s likely they’d like to know before the end of the year what amount they’ll be matching. If you’re self employed you’re on a tighter schedule because the deadline for setting up a solo 401(k) is December 31.
- If have plans to receive any expensive medical procedures in the near future that won’t be covered by your insurance, you may want to consider having them done before January 1st. Unreimbursed medical expenses that exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income are deductable.
- If you’re in the market for a new home, the homebuyer credit has been extended from November 30th to May 1st 2010. This credit used to be only for newcomers to the real estate market, but is now available for both new homebuyers and longtime homeowners looking to purchase a new home.
- A different—but related—course of action is making upgrades to the home you already own. Certain energy efficient improvements to your home can also get you a credit on your taxes… if you get the improvements done before the end of the year.
- One more way you may save money on your taxes this year that you won’t find mentioned in the Forbes article is to create an estate plan. To the extent that the legal planning services cover tax advice or regard income producing property, a portion of the professional fees that you invest in establishing your plan may be deductible from your federal income taxes (providing that your itemized expenses exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income).
All of these are good ways to save money on your 2009 taxes, but action needs to be taken before the end of the year. That gives you only… 27 days left to take action!
Keeping Financial Stability After the Loss of Your Spouse
October 11, 2009
Losing a spouse is one of the most difficult experiences life has to offer. Even continuing to take one day at a time seems almost impossible when you’ve lost your partner, your mate, the love of your life. Many people who have lost a spouse describe feeling as though the rug has been pulled out from under their feet; they feel like a child again, having to re-learn how to interact in the world without their other half.
The emotional loss is only part of this confusion, especially if—like most partnerships—you and your spouse ran your household and finances with a division of labor, each partner taking on the responsibilities that they most enjoyed and were most suited to perform… this includes the financial responsibility. The emotional impact of losing a spouse is hard enough, but in today’s complex financial world what do you do if the spouse you’ve lost was the family “Chied Financial Officer” ?
The first and most important step, according to this article from the Chicago Tribune, is organization. Knowing what your bank balance is, what your expenses are, and where important documents are located is absolutely key to getting through the rough patches. The second step—and this one may be the hardest—is taking stock of your new financial situation and adjusting your lifestyle and spending. Losing a portion of your family’s income is a shock, and people often go through the motions of their previous lives because they simply can’t yet face the reality of their loss. In addition, death comes with its own set of expenses which can make a substantial dent in your savings.
If you feel you just don’t have the strength or focus to deal with financial issues immediately following the death of your spouse, ask someone to help you temporarily. Eventually, when the grieving process has run its course, you will surface again; and when that happens you don’t want to find that the life you knew has been buried under debt.
A Guide to Taking Care of the Details After the Death of a Loved One
September 21, 2009
“The death of a loved one imposes cruel demands on the closest survivors.” The truth of that statement from this article in moneywatch.com is known to anybody who has lost a close friend or family member. We’ve written a lot on our blog about going through the probate process when a loved one dies, but probate isn’t the only thing you have to think about; in fact, it may not even be the first thing you should think about. At a time when you are bombarded by as many emotional demands as you are mundane demands, how can you know what to do first?
The article mentioned above contains a helpful guide for those who are dealing with loss. It includes well-known items such as “contact close friends and family” and “make funeral arrangements” as well as items that may not come to mind as naturally, such as “write an obituary” and “contact the deceased’s employer.” Few people think about these things when under emotional strain, which is why this list is an excellent resource to file away for a time when it may be needed.
If you are having a particularly hard time with the grieving process don’t be afraid to ask others to help with the more difficult items, or to hand the list over entirely to someone else. This is when your own probate or estate planning attorney (or the deceased’s attorney, if they had one) can be especially helpful.
Although it sometimes feels as if time should stand still when someone we love passes away, life does go on, for better or worse. But the world is full of caring and knowledgeable people to help you through the process… if you only know where to look.
Finances Are A Family Affair
August 20, 2009
We’ve all been learning a lot more lately about economics and investment practices than we ever thought we would… but do these lessons from the global economy transfer to the family circle?
Studies have shown that most families have one person who takes care of all the finances: paying the bills, setting aside money for investment and savings, planning the family budget, etc. This may be convenient in the short term, but it can create long term problems. If both partners aren’t aware of the family budget and financial status there can be a tremendous disconnect in spending habits, leading to resentment and often a slow decline into debt. Furthermore, what happens to the family finances if the “accountant spouse” dies or becomes incapacitated? The surviving spouse often has no idea what the family financial status is, or even where accounts or investments are located and how to access that money. The best solution is for couples to talk about their finances often, or take turns being the family CFO.
Even children benefit from a certain amount of involvement in the family financial planning. Having a regular allowance or earning pocket money for chores not only teaches kids about money management, but also helps them understand when they have to wait to get that new video game, or when the family may have to cut back on certain luxuries. Including children in certain financial decisions, such as which charities to support or how to spend surplus cash, teaches them accountability, and that the choices they make can have a lasting impact.
Many of us look upon our finances with dread; but it doesn’t have to be that way. Skill with money matters can bring us just as much pride and joy as skill with a paintbrush, tennis racquet, or any other skill that must be acquired with practice and hard work. With a little education, and the involvement of the entire family, we can all become the masters of our own financial futures.
“Second Childishness and Mere Oblivion”
July 30, 2009
Shakespeare wrote about the seven ages of man, in which he describes the human journey from helpless child to adult and back to helpless child again:
“…Infant, schoolboy, lover, soldier, justice, pantaloon, and second childhood, ‘sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything’”.
Anyone who has had to watch as their parents age knows how true this passage can be. And just as difficult as watching your parents age can be talking to them about it. No parent wants to show weakness in front of their child, or admit that they need help; and often their reluctance to talk is fueled by the fear that they’ll be “put away”, or have their freedom and independence taken from them. Adult children are reluctant to bring up the subject as well—they’re afraid of angering their parent, or sometimes their afraid of having their worst fears confirmed.
But ignoring the subject won’t make it go away, and waiting too long can be disastrous. The best way to talk to your parents about aging is to bring it up early, before fear and obstinance have set in. Having these discussions ahead of time prepares both parent and child for what may lie ahead, insures everybody is on the same page and that there are no surprises in store.
However, even with advance discussions and planning, it is likely that a few uncomfortable subjects will still come up. This article from Reader’s Digest has some advice on how to broach these difficult subjects (including the subject of estate planning), and even provides a few scripts to help get the conversation started. If you’re still uncomfortable, having a third party mediator can be helpful; a trusted doctor—or even your estate planning or elder law attorney—can be a calm voice of reason in deep emotional waters.
Talking Taxes Now Brings Big Savings Next April
July 29, 2009
Everyone knows that March and April are tax season, when everybody scrambles to get their taxes done, mailed off, and out of mind for the rest of the year; but according to this article from Reuters the taxes you pay in April can be significantly lower if you take the time to think about them now.
Author Linda Stern recommends mid-year as the best time to start thinking about your taxes because it gives you plenty of time to take advantage of various planning strategies and tax breaks, many of which she outlines in her article. Stern also points out that scheduling an appointment with your accountant in July—when accountants are not nearly as busy as March or April—means you’ll have more one-on-one time to strategize and discuss your financial situation.
Stern’s article is full of good advice and suggestions for saving on your taxes this year, but she forgets one important strategy: Creating your estate plan. Talking to a lawyer about your estate plan not only helps in understanding and organizing your finances, and protecting your assets for the future; but the money you spend in creating an estate plan can be tax deductable. Talk to your lawyer and accountant now about how you can protect—and save—your money in the future.
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