Do you participate in Facebook or other Social Networking sites?

Do you do any of your banking, bill paying or investing online?

If you answered yes to any of these questions then you might want to think about this next question… what will happen to all of your online assets and accounts when you die?

As we move further into the 21^st century more and more of our lives are moving into the digital realm. This includes friendships, networking, business and banking. The beauty of this is that it gives us unprecedented freedom and global access; the downside is that huge portions of our lives are locked away behind password protected accounts, many of which our friends and relatives aren’t even aware of. Online accounts are incredibly convenient, but they can create huge problems if your executor or agent has no way to retrieve your online passwords, assets or contacts after you die.

Some large online service providers are developing policies to deal with the transfer of accounts upon the death of the user, as noted in this article by Alejandro Martínez-Cabrera, “but the process is rarely a simple one.” Some companies require a death certificate before they will agree to shut down an account or turn over the contents, but rarely will an online company transfer actual ownership. It could take months or years of headaches and frustration before your heirs have access to any assets or information locked behind these online protections.

What this means for estate planning is that when you talk to your attorney about your will or your trust it’s not just about physical assets anymore; digital and online accounts and assets must be part of the conversation.

Turns out, we couldn’t be more wrong.

Stephanie Clifford of the New York Times writes that “among older people who went online last year, the number visiting social networks grew almost twice as fast as the overall rate of Internet use among that group.” For home-bound or wheelchair-bound seniors the internet and social networking sites can be a sanity-saver, keeping them from loneliness and isolation.

This growing trend is being helped along by social networking sites such as MyWay Village, designed specifically for seniors, their friends and families. These online senior networking groups allow members of the physically challenged elderly population to keep in touch with distant family members, meet people from their own cohort all over the country, and reconnect with old friends and co-workers—all at their own pace.  

These are the same things we all love about the social networking sites, young or old.  It turns out our aging parents aren’t so different from our teenage kids, or even from ourselves. If you think that your parents (or even you, yourself) are too old to catch on to the latest internet trend, reconsider. Everyone needs a community, even if that community is out in cyber-space.