Should A Bank Help You Care for Your Elderly Parents?

July 8, 2010

The influential Baby Boomer generation is aging, which means more and more of them are taking on the responsibility of caring for their elderly parents, and the Boomers are beginning to face up to the fact that they will need caregiving themselves in the not-so-distant future.

Large banks are not immune to this trend—and the potential to increase their client base by offering financial elder-care services. The question is, how effective can a bank be at helping you care for your elderly relatives?

According to this article in the Wall Street Journal banks can be helpful with certain financial issues such as helping to “sort out medical bills, hire in-home care or even manage the sale of a home.” Some of the larger banks are even beginning to offer more in-depth services such as “estate planning and setting up powers of attorney… crisis management (triggered, say, by a broken hip or a car accident); health and home assessments; Medicare-coverage selection and claims management; and evaluating retirement communities and long-term-care facilities.”

All of this sounds great, but before you get too excited our firm would like to caution you to be as careful about hiring a bank to do your estate or elder care planning as you would be with engaging any other attorney or professional advisor. After all, as the WSJ article says, “banks and trust companies aren’t doing this solely out of the goodness of their hearts. Providing extra services targeted at the elderly and their family caregivers can bump up the asset-management fees that clients pay each year. . . [or] persuade a few clients to move assets to an institution to meet its minimum deposit requirements.”

So we urge you, before you jump into anything—whether it be with a bank, an attorney, a CPA or other important advisor—do the research and ask all the questions you need to ask in order to find out whether this advisor truly knows their stuff; knows the ins and outs of the law and the care-giving industry; and most important of all, make sure the person or institution you hire will be working for you, will be your advocate and your ally during difficult and confusing times. Further, to the extent your loved one needs legal services to plan for incapacity, to implement asset preservation strategies, to design an estate plan or to plan for Medi-Cal or other public benefits, our strong recommendation is to first seek the advice and guidance of an Elder Law attorney knowledgeable in the field. In our opinion, acquiring these skills takes years of study, practice and experience.

Stuck In The Middle: Caring For Aging Relatives

May 20, 2010

“Too rich for most government-funded social programs and not rich enough to pay for full-time, long-term care services.”

Does this sound familiar? It is exactly the kind of financial situation most elderly find themselves in today, and one which requires many adult children who are still raising their own kids to also care for their parents. That is the situation in which Michelle Singletary, Washington Post staff writer, finds herself in today. In her W.P. article Prepare now for a future that might include caring for your elderly family, she describes the feelings of frustration, admiration, and obligation that come with caring for her elderly father-in-law.

Singletary writes movingly about the realities of caring for an aging relative, but what she seems most determined to convey is that it is never too early to start thinking about what your own parents’ future holds. “If you have even an inkling that you may become the caregiver for an aging parent or relative, start planning for it now. Ask questions about the person’s finances. Collect information from community and nonprofit organizations. Get your own finances in order because you’ll probably have to pitch in financially.”

Part of planning for your aging parent or relative is thinking about Medi-Cal (called “Medicaid” in most other states), Long-Term Care Insurance, and the best way to save and protect your assets. Many aging parents believe that they are “covered” if they have a Will or even a convential “Living Trust”.  Those legal documents may be fine for ‘death planning’, but may fall short for Long Term Care Planning.  Call our firm and let us help you—and help your aging parents.

Robin Hood Lives On: Tax Breaks to Help Your Family

May 11, 2010

It may seem like you just can’t catch a break when it comes to paying taxes, but according to this article in the Wall Street Journal there are a few little known tax breaks that could end up saving your family money. Some are new—so new, in fact, that it is still before the Senate—such as the tax exemption for employer provided cell phones and smart phones; and some—like the tax free income homeowners can earn if they rent out their home for 14 days or fewer during a year—have been around for a few years.

Of particular interest to our clients is the gift tax exclusion (another lesser known tax break that has been around for a few years.) As stated in the article, “Anyone may give anyone else up to [$13,000] per year in cash or property, free of gift tax. One partner of a married couple can double the gift and the exemption. So a couple with three married children and six grandchildren could give away over $300,000 a year, tax-free.”

We say that this gift tax exclusion may be of particular interest to our clients because if you are looking for a way to lower your estate tax, or anticipate applying for government medical services in the next few years, giving gifts to loved ones right now may help you achieve your goal—if you go about it the right way. One caution:  if you make large gifts now, they could prevent you from qualifying for a government subsidy, Medi-Cal, in the event you need long term care in a nursing facility.  At the moment, however, there are ways that you can both  (1) make tax free gifts to family members AND (2) minimize (or even eliminate) the risk to a long term care subsidy should you need it. However, such gifts must be very carefully managed so as to be compliant with both tax law and with Medi-Cal rules. Expert guidance is essential.

Contact our office if you would like guidance as to how any of these “Robin Hood” tax saving techniques may help your family this year.

The IRS Provides One More Reason to Consider Long-Term Care Insurance

October 23, 2009

In the estate planning business we help people plan for the future, not only for their children and heirs but for themselves as well; which is why we are pleased to share the news that it just got a little bit easier to plan for your own financial future, because according to this article on Emax Health the IRS has just approved higher tax deductions for long-term care insurance.

Advancements in health care and our standard of living mean that Americans are living longer than ever before, but that doesn’t mean they’re living better in their old age. Very few of us are able to remain healthy and hearty until our dying days; rather, most aging Americans will experience a slow decline in their mental and physical health, and require some kind of nursing care, either at home or in a nursing facility. Unfortunately, the cost of that care is prohibitively expensive, and once a patient’s own financial resources have been exhausted the burden then falls on their family, or they end up relying on government benefits.

Long-term care insurance is one way of planning ahead to pay for the nursing care that most of us will almost assuredly need. The higher tax deductions approved by the IRS offer one more reason to consider long-term care insurance: by planning for your future you can save on your taxes right now. But do your research and consult with a professional before you jump in, because the deductions are available only on “qualified” policies, and there are limits on the amount of the premium deduction, depending on the age of the taxpayer at the end of the year.

Alzheimer’s Disease Can Take Your Memory AND Your Financial Security

October 18, 2009

Alzheimer’s disease affects as many as 5.3 million people in the United States; which means it affects as many as 5.3 million families, because Alzheimer’s is a disease that affects everybody it touches—husbands, wives, children and grandchildren—they all bear witness to their loved one’s slow demise.

Sadly, emotional stress is not the only stress that accompanies Alzheimer’s disease; those loved ones serving as caretakers may carry a huge amount of financial stress as well. According to this article by Denise Bonilla the cost of caring for an Alzheimer’s patient can run anywhere from $64 a day to $77,380 a year, and because Alzheimer’s disease can be such a long-lasting disease (a person can suffer from Alzheimer’s for up to 20 years) the costs of care can end up being astronomical. It’s obvious that people can’t do it alone.

Some of the options to help Alzheimer’s patients pay for medical expenses are long-term care insurance or Medicaid [Medi-Cal in California] (Medicare doesn’t cover the cost of long-term care). Long-term care insurance can be very helpful… if you’ve thought ahead and purchased the policy before you or your spouse began suffering from symptoms of Alzheimer’s.  As for the government programs, those also can be helpful… if you fall in the right category and know how to navigate the complex system.

Unfortunately, learning how to navigate the system is not something you can do in an hour or two. Because your experience will depend on a number of unique factors,  we cannot give you an easy set of instructions to follow. The best advice we can give is to say that right now, the best way to navigate the Medicaid/Medi-Cal system is to find someone who knows the system to assist you.  It is in this endeavor that Elder Law attorneys help their clients on a regular basis. If you wish to ensure that you and your loved ones will be cared for no matter what the future may bring,  seek out the advice and counsel of an experienced Elder Law attorney.  In doing so, you may just find that your financial security can be secured and a payment source for your loved one’s care expenses found.  Free of financial worry, you may then relax and devote more of your energies to supporting your family and loved one.  If you wish more information, we invite you to download your own copy of our “Consumer’s Guide To Medi-Cal Planning”.

Medi-Cal Budget Cuts Won’t Affect Nursing Home Residents

August 2, 2009

We have received many inquiries from clients and colleagues asking whether the California Budget, just signed by Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger on July 28, 2009, will adversely affect nursing home residents who rely upon Medi-Cal to help pay for care. The good news: No. Neither will it directly affect subsidies for ancillary services, such as dental and podiatric care. The budget cuts made in order to close the $26 Billion “gap” will, however, have a tremendous affect upon Medi-Cal programs for persons not residing in nursing homes, upon child welfare programs, AIDS prevention, and low cost health insurance for low income children. Click on the link below for the full details. The cuts to Medi-Cal begin on page 15 of the Amendments:

http://www.dof.ca.gov/budget/historical/2009-10/governors/summary/documents/enacted/FullBudgetSummary.pdf

A Situation Such As This

April 24, 2009

A child paralyzed in a tragic accident; a spouse diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease and then placed in assisted living after a terrible fall; mounting medical bills.  How does one plan for a situation such as this?  Kate Michelman certainly thought she and her husband had planned for every eventuality—she is a well-known and well-to-do public figure, they have excellent medical insurance, long-term care insurance—and yet still they found themselves “on the brink of losing everything”.

Michelman’s story is frightening precisely because it could happen (and is happening) to any of us. The unfortunate truth about medical insurance, long-term care insurance, and Medicare / Medi-Cal for those who qualify,  is that they often cover “most of the cost” of medical treatment—but “most” is woefully lacking when faced with the reality of the high cost of medical care. Deductibles, Co-payments, Share of Cost, the  Medicare Prescription Drug “donut hole” and “uncovered services” can sometimes create a huge personal obligation.

And so we ask again, how does one plan for a situation such as this? The answer begins with “help”.  The medical industry, insurance industry, and government benefits programs are staggeringly convoluted and confusing.  Enlist help in navigating their requirements and regulations. Find a professional who can help you build a plan to make the best use of those systems and what they offer. Find other professionals who are well-versed in peripheral systems who can support that plan.

Medical care in the United States has become a mountain of cost, and even the young and healthy cannot afford to ignore it any longer. 

Help for Growing Old Gracefully and Peacefully

April 4, 2009

There is a saying that goes something along the lines of “the only thing worse than getting old is the alternative,” which is said to express pretty well the dismay, betrayal, confusion and sometimes horror that go along with the aging process. Americans are living longer than ever—which really means that there are more opportunities for our bodies to fall apart on us—and elderly Americans are finding that they don’t have the means to pay for all the support and care (often professional care) that their aging bodies require.

Long-term care for elderly Americans can be extremely expensive; instead of heaping that cost upon their children (who in many cases may not be willing or able to pay it) many Baby Boomers are opting to invest in long-term care insurance to cover all or a portion of their anticipated long-term care costs.

If you are considering purchasing long-term care insurance the AARP has a wonderful article to help you through the process. The article covers everything from an easy overview of what long-term care insurance is and what costs it will traditionally cover, to key issues to consider before purchasing a policy.

The thing about growing old is that we all know it’s going to happen; the least we can do is prepare ourselves and our families for what’s coming. That means preparing emotionally, organizationally, and financially. If long-term care insurance can help with one or more of those things it brings us one step closer to growing old gracefully, and just as important—growing old peacefully.

And for those who may not be able to qualify because of health issues, or cannot afford the cost of insurance, there may still be a safety net.  A government subsidy under the Medi-Cal Long Term Care Program may be available to help with nursing home costs, depending upon your circumstances. While our firm does not sell long term care insurance, where appropriate we have helped numerous clients qualify for a nursing home subsidy under the Medi-Cal program,  while simultaneously asssiting them  preserve their life savings and protect their family home.